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I am here to help you to move beyond anxiety, conflict, pain, suffering or lack in your life, by guiding you to find inner wholeness. 

Choose from one of my courses, workshops or Compassion Key healing facilitations to start your journey of transformation.

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Feeling stuck - below the age of 35

Over the past 15+ years I have helped many young people, who despite trying to do all the right things to create the life they want, found themselves feeling stuck - in one or several areas of life - and often in ways they can’t fully explain.

On the surface, life might look “fine,” but inside it doesn’t feel fine. There’s a sense of going through the motions, but of not really being able to get to where they want to be, a sense of something holding them back or not realising ones full potential.

When we are going through this, instead of being able to identify the underlying cause accurately, it's easy to assume our symptoms are due to a personal flaw, due to laziness or a lack of motivation, or something more serious. So often people blame themselves for not coping better or for not being able to “just get on with it.” 

It's only once we begin to uncover what’s really going on things start to shift. We stop feeling like there’s something wrong with us and start to see that our body and mind have simply been trying to keep us safe in the only ways they knew how.

If you would like to gain clarity on what the root cause of this stuckness might be for you,  why not download my free guide: "Why you feel stuck and how to move forward".

In this guide, I  help you get to the root cause of why you’re stuck so you can begin to move forward with clarity, compassion, and confidence. You don’t have to stay in survival mode. Let’s begin the journey back to your confident, capable, empowered self!

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Not knowing what the root cause of our diffculties is can feel so uncomfortable and tends to make us go round in circles, wondering what is going on.

Gaining clarity and insight can be a huge relief because then we know what we are dealing with and how to move forward.

If you are wondering why you are feeling stuck and how to move forward, why not download my free guide to gain clarity and a path forward.

It’s not there to give a diagnosis. It’s a way to check in with yourself, identify your difficuties acuratelly so that you move forward with clarity and agency.

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COURSE:
From anxious to confident

From Anxious to Confident is a transformational 12-week group anxiety recovery programme designed to help you move from worry and self-doubt to a place of calm, clarity, and confidence.
The programme offers a powerful blend of daily short videos and weekly live Zoom calls aimed at soothing the overstimulated nervous system and guiding you through practical tools, mindset shifts, and calming techniques out of survival mode to inner safety, confidence, joy and peace.

Alongside the daily short videos, there are weekly live Zooms calls with me for deep support, connection, and overcoming obstacles.

With a structured path and a compassionate community, From Anxious to Confident takes participants through the recovery process to build lasting inner confidence—one step at a time.

To apply for the waitlist please book a free call with me to discuss whether this programme is right for you.



Moving beyond your current limit

A tweleve week transformational journey that will guide you to move beyond anxiety by finding true inner safety.

Practical guidance

Daily videos and weekly Zoom sessions to guide you through practical tools, mindset shifts, and calming techniques out of survival mode back to joy, relaxation and peace.

Community and connection

A shared experience with other participants who are on the same journey as you.

A unique approch

This course works with anxiety from a physiological, mental, emotional and cognitive perspective - integrating all the elements so that recovery becomes possible.

Next start date: January 2026

COURSE:
Healing Through Autism

A twelve week, one on one, individually tailored, transformational course for parents of children who are neurodivergent and/or have special needs.

Twelve experiential exercises and twelve one-to one live sessions  with me in which we look in detail at your situation, the specific challenges you and your child are facing to guide you into a place of peace, calm, connectedness and joy.

Are you a parent of a child who is neurodivergent or has special needs? Are you stressed, do you feel exhausted, does life seem to be on top of you?  Do you find many of your child’s traits and behaviours challenging? Are you desperate for things to change but you are not sure where to start?

Then this is the course for you!

Parenting a child on the spectrum can be extremely challenging.

True relief and healing starts when you find effective ways of relating to your child and addressing your child’s difficulties in a way that facilitates lasting change, so that you, your child and the whole family can move from overwhelm, stress and pain into a place of  peace, harmony, calm and joy.

This is what this course guides you to do.

Address the root cause of difficult behaviours

Look in detail at the issues/situations/interactions/behaviours that are problematic and address them in a way that facilitates lasting change.

Release your own difficult feelings

Deal with and work through the difficult feelings that get triggered in you by your child's difficulties.

Calm your child's nervious system

Be guided to parent in a way that calms your child's nervous system so that your child can begin to learn to regulate their feelings better and move from living in fight or flight into a state of relaxation and openness to learn and grow.

Deepen your connection

Put in place the fundamentals that create shared experiences and deepen emotional connection between you and your child in order to tap into their own motivation to grow and change and create an environment in which your child's true potential can be unlocked.
It is the consistent  "meeting our child where they are at" that leads to consistent change and growth.
Martina Bilmayer
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Is there a situation or a specific issue that you are facing in your life that you would like to overcome?
I offer one to one transformational coaching to help you create the change that you are seeking.

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Compassion Key facilitations

As a Compassion Key Facilitator I offer one to one compassion key healing sessions that are individually tailored to address the exact difficulties that you are facing.

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About me:

My background is in psychotherapy and I am also a Compassion Key Facilitator. I have over 15 years experience helping people heal emotional pain and difficult life situations.

I live and breathe my work and healing is my passion which is why I have explored many paths and approaches to healing over the past 20 years.

This has led me to realise that we may believe we have a lot of different problems to solve in order to live happy and fulfilled lives, but in TRUTH we only have ONE and that is the separation from our core Self. When we realise this and return to who we truly are everything falls into place.

My work with parents of children who are neurodivergent or have special needs is based on my own experience of raising a child on the spectrum as well as my experience of working with parents of children with neurodivergence or special needs over the past 10 years. 

I work with people from many different backgrounds and walks of life both in the UK and globally.

If you would like to find out more about my psychotherapy practice and about having psychotherapy with me please visit:

www.martinabilmayercounselling.co.uk

Testimonials

What my clients say:

I had the chance to experience "Return to who you truly are - Heal your life" with Martina.

I am a personal development professional as I help my clients get out of burnout and move on with their lives.
Having gone through a painful separation, despite my tools, I could not get out of the conflicts. I really needed help to connect with who I really am. I wanted help to understand that we are all intimately connected, that nothing happens to us by chance and all is already whole.

"Return to who you truly are" helped me to resolve some major conflict once and for all. I learned to raise my consciousness. I have been able to find peace, serenity and an incredible confidence in myself, in the invisible world (let's call it the Universe) and with my Guides.

Martina has been a wonderful, supportive and comforting coach to me.
I have been able to open a portal with "Return to who you truly are" and I am entering a new phase of my life with serenity and confidence.

Those six weeks s are over, and now everything begins. It is extraordinary. I can't wait for the next part.

From the bottom of my heart, thank you Martina. Thank you to the Universe for bringing you on to my path.

Manoëlle van der Straten – Belgium
This 'Healing Through Autism' workshop with Martina was so helpful.

As a parent of a child with autism she helped me to understand so many vital ways to understand, connect with and help my son.

Her compassion, understanding and knowledge are so evident that I felt safe trusting her with my feelings.  Her knowledge of emotions and the state that our children on the autistic spectrum can get into makes total sense of their needs and behaviour which is so refreshing. She helped me to feel so much more empowered to help my son to the next level.

It's like coming home in terms of being cared for, being understood and receiving teaching on how to get to where you want to be.

I cannot recommend working with Martina enough, either via courses, workshops or on a one-to-one basis.
Sally, West Sussex, UK
Martina's experienced guidance and compassionate clarity has supported me into a new terrain of embodiment and joy.
 I am grateful for what I have been able to connect to and integrate through our work together. 

She shares an elegant balance of intuition and discernment with practical, knowledgeable experience of the deeper layers of the human heart and psyche.  Thank you Martina!
Christine, New Mexico, USA
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